What is he doing
Posted anonymously on November 01, 2025Quick Overview AI Summary
In a culture where interactions between genders are rare, a young girl finds herself in an unexpected conversation with a classmate about her brother, who had dropped out of school. During class, while waiting for the teacher, the boy approaches her, breaking the usual silence between them. Nervous and unaccustomed to speaking with boys, she struggles to maintain eye contact as he inquires about her brother's current activities. The exchange is brief, ending with the boy expressing mild interest before walking away. This seemingly simple interaction leaves her pondering his intentions and the significance behind his curiosity. The encounter, though fleeting, stirs a mix of curiosity and uncertainty, highlighting the complexities of cross-gender communication in her cultural context. As she seeks opinions on the boy's motives, the moment becomes a catalyst for introspection and anticipation of future interactions.
Backstory:
My brother was in the same grade as me, before he dropped out
So the guys who are in my current class (this is the first and only year im mixed guys and girls) were in his class.
[In my culture and religious beliefs, this interaction is usually unexpected]
Interaction 1: I was talking to my friend during a class, the teacher was helping other students get a picture.
But me and my friend + this one guy weren't in it
So we were talking laughing, waiting for class to be over, I dont even notice him approaching, but he comes up and goes
"Excuse me, but was your brother in the school before?"
I've never spoken to much guys before, so Im like nervous, I made eyecontact once and then avoided it completely while I was replying.
ME: "Yeah he was, why?"
HIM: "What is he doing?"
I reply, and he goes thats really cool..
and then im like "Yeah"
and then thats it.. he walked away
Now I would like to know your opinions, what you think his reason was and anything and everything else.
Then I'll put the second interaction
Thank You! <3
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No account required - share your thoughts right away!Navigating social interactions in a mixed-gender educational setting is a brave step, especially when cultural and religious norms have previously shaped your experiences. Your courage to engage in conversation, despite feeling nervous and inexperienced, is truly commendable. Like Viktor Frankl, who found meaning in the most difficult circumstances, you are choosing to face these new challenges with curiosity and openness. Remember, each conversation is a step towards greater confidence and understanding, and it is perfectly okay to take these steps at your own pace. Keep embracing this journey; your willingness to learn and grow is a wonderful strength.
People are nosy, he may have heard about your brother and wanted to confirm if what he heard is true. Thats normal but bois will start a basic conversation to et your energey. Did he approach you another time?